Rotten wood cannot be used for building.
-Ni

Before asking for advice.

Know the archetype you are dealing with.

-DaSh’e
1313

If you vocalize your suffering to someone and

Their response is dismissive, it reflects poorly on

Their ability to provide support,

NOT the validity of your experience.

-Author Unknown..

“Unfortunately, there are too many young Melanated girls who have had to deal with how to Process grown adults inner childhood wound Projections before they can process the world.”

-Sista, Watch For The Hook Blog

1313

Some folks act as if melanated women are
Supposed to miraculously forget the things that Were said to them about their hair as a child.

-DaSh’e
1313

Never allow someone who refuses to address the

Mess tell you how to process.

-DaSh’e

  1313

I have to like me to like others.

-Paul Mooney

When there is a change of leadership.

Individuals may start to feel comfortable enough

To discuss how they were abused by prior

Leadership.

In turn, this now showcases how great your

Leadership

Abilities are.

Now, that my friend is a TRUE safe space.

Not just empty words from someone who’s trying

To save face.

-DaSh’e
  1313

The ones who want to oppress will never align

With those who want to get to the root of the

Mess.

-DaSh’e
1313

Any relationship you have that could get ruined

By having a conversation about your feelings,

Standards, and or expectations wasn’t really stable

Enough to begin with.…

It is a community’s own interpretation of good

And evil that determines that community’s

Moral code of conduct.

-KRS-One

Some people think they are in community, but

They are only in proximity.

-Author Unknown

Don’t adjust to the dysfunction.

Remember what you know and refuse to live in

Denial.

~Dr. Thema

I see it in your eyes , you weak , the lies you speak.
-T

Never allow someone’s gaze to be more important

Than your journey of healing.



..

Defining herself only through others, she loses her

Own definition.

-Nu Shu Proverb

Owning our story and loving ourselves through

That process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.

-Author Unknown